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In today’s post, I will be sharing with you tips on how to start loving yourself without wasting time let’s begin.

Self love is the most important and best thing one can do to oneself, Loving yourself will give you the self confidence that you need, it provides you with the feeling of self worth and also gives you more positive outlook towards life. If you can practice self love, you will be much more happier, you will be the best version of yourself, you will stop comparing yourself to others and stop caring what others think of you. If you are ready o start loving yourself then continue reading.

How To Start Loving Yourself

Distance Yourself From People Who Talk/Think Less of You: Number one tip on how to start loving yourself is to distance yourself from people who talk or think less of you, you need to distance yourself from people who think you are not worthy to be their friend or who just use you because they can. If you take this step then you are one step closer to loving yourself.

Focus Less On Getting Approval from Other People: Another step on how to start loving yourself is to focus less on getting approval from other people, you are so focused on getting approval from that your friend who thinks less of you no matter what you do to please them, you will lose yourself in the process that you might just become a puppet. So take that step towards loving yourself and stop focusing on getting other people’s approval. Be your own judge.

Forgive Yourself: Tip number Three on how to start loving yourself is to learn to forgive yourself, To start loving yourself you need to forgive yourself and the mistake you make, here are steps to forgiveness that you can take towards forgiving yourself.

Show Gratitude For Who You Are: Every day that you wake up, be grateful for who you are, and what you have achieved so far, this can go a long way because it shows you are happy with who you are and proud of what you have achieved so far.

Listen To Your Intuition: Whenever I don’t listen to my intuition things don’t always go the way I want, so you need to always to your intuition because most times it is always right.

Believe In Your Abilities: Another key tip on how to start loving yourself is to believe in your own abilities, you need to believe that you can achieve whatever it is that you put your mind to and hard work into because if you don’t believe in yourself no one else will believe in you.

Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone: Once in a while you need to get out of your comfort zone, do things that you have not done before, I can tell you that it will help with your journey towards self-love, once you have stepped out of your comfort zone you will gain a lot of confidence because once you do it, it will feel like you can achieve anything which is good.

Do What Makes You Happy: On your journey towards self-love you need to find out what makes you happy, whether it is listening to music or drawing or just going to the beach, take your time and do it every single day so that you put a smile on your own face.

Start Finding Out What You Love About Yourself: Another step on how to start loving yourself is to start finding out what you love about yourself, what are the attributes that you love about yourself, what part of you do you love the most? Ask yourself these questions and you will start loving yourself that is if you accept yourself for who you are.

Stop Trying To Be Perfect: Each and every one of us has tried to be perfect in one way or the other, what we all need to know is that no one is perfect, and the sooner we realize that the better. So stop trying to be perfect in everything you and accept that everyone makes mistakes and that it is OK.

Take Break From social Media: Bonus tip on how to start loving yourself is to take breaks from social media, I take a lot of breaks from Instagram because it always makes me think less of myself, take a bit of my advice and don’t spend a lot of your time on social media.

That all the tips I have on how to start loving yourself, learn how to love yourself more with these tips that I have shared with you so that you can be a bit happier every day.

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  1. Thank you for sharing! I have been struggling with trying to be perfect or getting approval from others lately. So your post was really helpful! ๐Ÿ’•

  2. Probably one of the best lists on how to love yourself I’ve seen. I definitely believe that self love can only be achieved when you know wjo you are and you’ve spent enough time alone to not be reliant on someone else. I think your point about focusing less on other people’s approval is so true. The only approval you should be seeking is your own. At the end of the day it’s your life and youre the one who will need to be happy within yourself.

  3. A very great write up ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฟ Thank you sooo much for this. I look forward to your next post๐Ÿค—

  4. I love these tips. It’s amazing how quickly you start loving yourself more when you stay away from negative people and too much social media. Great advice!

  5. Great self-love tips. I particularly agree with the last one on social media. I think social media these days can be so harmful, especially for the younger generation. Finding your true purpose in life and do what makes you happy are much better alternatives. Thanks for sharing the wise wisdoms.

  6. Stop trying to be perfect! This one hits home for sure. Perfectionism is a constant struggle that can really bring me down. Thanks for your kind words!

  7. This list is an amazing list – we get so wrapped up in being who others want us to be and pleasing others that we slip in providing ourselves love and care. This list is a good reality and love check for ourselves!

  8. These are such great tips and things I have already started to implement in my life to start loving myself. Recently I completely got off of Instagram because it was hurting my mental health and now because I did that action, my mood is happier and lighter. Thanks for sharing – Josie xxx

  9. A great read! All the tips are amazing but I really like the first one. Distancing yourself from negative people is the first step to practice self-love. Thanks for sharing!

  10. Great actionable tips on how to practice self-love! I love how you included forgiveness in the list. Forgiveness is so powerful & helps in healing ๐Ÿ™‚

  11. Well written post and so informative! I’m trying always be positive thinker and love everything about myself. This is amazing post, dear!

  12. Great tips Adenike these are great reminders on treating yourself more better. Thank you for sharing looking forward to see more of your work.

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