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How To Deal When Your Partner Starts To Ignore You

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Happy New Year Guys!!!! I am so excited for this year guys, i have so much planned for you guys and also this is the first blog post for 2020 so without wasting anymore time let’s get into today’s post which is all about how to deal when your partner starts to ignore you.

There are different stages of a relationship, the first stage is the attraction and romance all couples go through this phrase, this phase occurs at the beginning of your relationship, this phase is a lot fun and this stages last long from anywhere between three months to about two years.

Stage two of a relationship is where reality sets in, this stage is very crucial because most relationship ends at this stage.

Stage three is the disappointment stage inside this stage is where the topic for today comes for, this stage is where your partner starts to ignore you and sometimes it might be because your partner is just tired of the relationship and sometimes it might just be that they have a lot of things on their mind.

In today’s post, I am going to share with you tips on how to deal when your partner starts to ignore you, so without wasting anymore time let’s begin.

Give Your Partner Space: I always place emphasis on this a lot, always give your partner the space that they need, let your partner know that whenever they need their space that they will have it.

Consider If Your Partner is Going Through Something: Like I said before your partner might be going through something that they are not ready to share with you.

Avoid The Temptation Of Ignoring Your partner: This is very important don’t say because your partner has been ignoring you, you will do the same to them, it doesn’t work that way, your partner might be having issues at work that he/she feels they shouldn’t bother you with.

Use Empathic Body Language: This might be a bit tricky but I am sure that it will help, use your body language to tell your partner whatever it is that they are going to you are going to be there for him/her.

Express How You Feel: Let your partner know how much it hurts you that he/she is ignoring you, let them know that you love them, but communicate with your partner it is very key in every relationship.

Listen To Your Partner: When your partner is ready to talk, listen to whatever they want to say.


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  1. Great post. It can be so hard to read people and figure out what’s going on no matter how well we know them.
    If I feel my partner closing off a little I do the same and we hit stalemate, neither one willing to back down.

    Relationships are tough x

    1. Thank you, Yes you are right, relationships are tough but I believe if you and your partner work together, it will work out

  2. Great post. Don’t ignore your partner when they ignore you is an important thing to remember. Thanks for sharing

  3. Great post. I love that your talking about a subject that probably has happened to most people at some point yet we never speak about it.

    1. Totally true

  4. MoneyfortheMamas says:

    Every wife should read this! I need to practice patience and not jumping to conclusions more. Thanks for the nudge!

    1. You are most welcome

  5. katelyn | embark to explore says:

    this post is great because it reminds me that I need to step out of my own ‘shoes’ for a second and consider what someone else may be thinking/going through. As someone who’s young and i’m in a long term relationship with my partner, it can be hard to take a step back sometimes bc we’re each others first proper relationship – we didn’t have much practise before we met each other, ha! thank you for writing this!

    1. I am glad that you liked it and that I could help

  6. Abina George says:

    I’m so glad you mentioned that sometimes your partner is going through something. Personally, my partner has previously thought I was mad with him when I just had something on my mind.

    1. Most people ignore that fact

  7. DidiCrawford says:

    Thank you for sharing this! So insightful and really thought-provoking. I will also add, talk to your partner about your own feelings. At the end of the day, a relationship is about the amalgamation of two people. Sometimes, the other person’s negative feelings have an effect on us, so I think for your own mental health I think it’s important to take a moment and say ‘I am sorry you’re going through this, but I am your friend, your other half, so please be aware that your actions and feelings affect me’.


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